If the men you date come on strong and then seem to lose interest, Jade Brode's new book is a must-read.

Topsail Island, NC - (NAPSA)-If you've noticed that more women are getting married lately, it could be because of the popularity of a book that shows what high-achieving women must know in order to succeed in dating and marrying men of value.

In that book, "Marry the Man of Your Dreams" (Ingram), author Jade Brode says that successful dating is similar to going on a job interview; it requires hard work and self-discipline. According to Brode, "Once a man reaches maturity, there is more to capturing his heart than beauty and instant sex."

In her book, Brode addresses what makes men tick and gives invaluable advice and insight into the hows and whys of finding ways to succeed with men of high value. From issues such as personal hygiene, clothing and personal habits to sex, money management, family and friends, Brode helps women assess what they need to change. She says that women need to use their brains and set high standards. Only then will they be valued by someone else.

Among the magic steps that lead to the altar, Brode suggests that you:

¥ Spellbind him by looking him in the eye while listening.
¥ Insist that your date arrives on time-if he does not, don't be there when he does arrive.
¥ Set boundaries on the first date, not after the wedding.
¥ Expect the same consideration he gives his boss.
¥ Create a "No!" chart-and then follow it!

As for some of the don'ts:

¥ Do not chase him. You are in charge of the relationship.
¥ Do not accept last-minute invitations.
¥ Do not put lots of bumper stickers and decals on your car.
¥ Sex is not a recreational drug-save it for last.

Jade Brode has spent years counseling women in the entertainment and business world who were successful in their careers but failing with men. The women she worked with credit Jade's counseling style with changing their lives.

Critics report that Jade Brode's new book will help women who tend to strike out before getting to the altar.

Her book is now available in bookstores. To learn more, visit www.marrythemanofyourdreams.org.

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